27 August 2008, 5:38 pm
i have a problem. for the first i have almost been cheating 3times but very luckily nothing happened not sex not kiss.and i have been very sorry and sad for that afterwards.now it has gone 2years from that but she still mistrust me i cant even have musicvideos because my girlfriend dont let me have many favourites in my youtube because there is girls that look too sexy for example shakira and russian and romanian musicvideos because im fantisisng about them. ok i quess i acceppted that i had to take them off a little even if i was very angry when it happened and she was totally horrible and over nasty. but she dont understand that men are stupid and fantisisng about beautiful women.its not an excuse or something but men do that unfortunately. Im not going to cheat on her when i fantisise about someone on a musicvideo or someone in the city. im just genetically a stupid man and i cant change that. I love her and have been trying to tell her that this is how it is and unfortunately i cant change it but now she said that im not welcome to talk with her before i acceppt her conditions which are that im not allowed to fantisise about women and i dont want to promise something i cant hold and i dont want to leave her so im in a big problem right now. all sexual advisors say its totally normal to fantisise because its not real its just fantasy and it can even be good to fantisise and i have told her i dont have to tell her when i do if she feel bad from it anyway she dont want to understand so now im just sitting home half depressed. and i dont want any comment about my attempt to cheat it was very stupid but i have never had sex with anyone else so i wanted to feel something else but luckily that didnt happen and i cant change the past its how it is. and yeah i thought her relative was sexy when she showed me a pic and said im going to like her look and i was fantisisng about working friend and some other before thats why she is extra angry because i was stupid and was going to fantisise abt her relative. ok it may be stupid but im still not going and cheating for fantising. and im allowed to look at porno videos but not fantisise about anything else a video or a real person. is there a man (that is not a jehova witness or smht)that can really hold a promise like that?? how many men is there that can be without looking (or women?)at nice men/women or never fantisise??? and is there some men that have been fantisising about ur girls relative? im not trying to justify it because of course i know its not right like that but i want to know anyway... read more
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